31 Verbs for May 2015

It's my birthday this month. I'll be 39 on 12 May. I'm hopefull that these words will be a positive thing for my mind to work on throughout the whole month of May

I like . . . has many things that could be placed after those starter words. I'm curious about self-chatter. Can I give new words, new phrases, new one liners to myself that are more supportive than the negative top-down, emotion packed self-judgements?

I will finish this sentence: I ______________ myself. These may turn into mini mantra's

love
cherish
enjoy
sooth
caress
celebrate
feel
support
validate
hear
empathize
attune
see
hold
permit
re-create
understand
welcome
embrace
invite
be-friend
accept
approve
nurture
encourage
praise
like
acknowledge
release
renew
respect

I may be a puzzle but I'm worth figuring out.

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